In Malaysia for example, the true message often left hidden in distress. In our tv drama, often portrayed that nothing more important that a husband words towards their wife & mothers words upon their children.
One might say to her mother.
“I cant take shift job cause you wont understand”
&& the mother interpreted the message as the child was putting the blame on her for not getting the job while what she tried to implement was shift job is harder due to nature of the job and timing required by society for someone to stay awake from 6am-10pm.
Indeed. One message being interpreted wrongly.
One might said. No matter what happened. The older person always right. This can be seen mainly in Korean & Japanese drama where seniority matters the most.
Imagine when someone whose words keep on being twisted decided no longer want to share anything. The problem and toxic thought kept multiplying it’s cells in her/his mind. In the end, it will lead to quiet suicide.
I had encountered with someone who want to commit suicide not beause she want to die but she try to ensure her family’s happiness cause she thought she was a burden.
The point should be taken not by putting the blame on the girl. As society have this black habit call “Victim blaming.” but why dont we check the hint given by this person.
She/He might lost her smile in the process. She might want to tell others but when others keep on comparing, complaining and judging her. She moved backwards and wrap herself in her own blanket. Seek for her own peace.
When the fragile amd tranquility of her state of mind made her become venerable for the demon of the mind to persuading her to do something stupid.
Most people fail to recognise the stage of suicide is not only why hanging on a rope or jumping off a tall building but killing softly is far worst.
&& when that happened. Society will blame on her for her religion stand. It will be a never end process.
Take a deep breath. Try to see the small light in fhe darkest night of someone deeds.
One person might be sexy and judged by her appearance but might be someone who never skip her prayer.
One person might be woke up late. later off being label as lazy. but off from our knowledge, she mights spent the night reciting Al-Quran.
Just because something a lil different than what we knew. Doesn’t mean it didnt happened.
Syop judging amd twist other people’s words. We never knew how dtrong the other party mentality. We might help killing this person without we realise.
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